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c5.195 企业…
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“这世界上有一种鸟是没有脚的,它只能够一直飞,飞累了就在风里面睡觉,这种鸟一辈子只能下地一次,那就是它死的时候。”
这段电影台词拿来形容企业家是再合适不过了。
欲戴王冠，必承其重
“企业家”这三个字不仅代表着光荣与梦想，更承载着压力与责任。
一个企业家的背后是几百上千名员工，更牵扯着千千万万个家庭。企业发展得越好，企业家的责任越重，这条路一旦开始就无法停歇。他们也就变得不敢病、不敢死了。
精神和身体的双重压力
正如皇明太阳能董事长黄鸣所说， 一旦成为一名企业家，便意味着他的一生将与压力、竞争、劳累、焦虑结伴而行，再也不得轻松。
企业家往往承担着身体和精神的双重压力。他们大多是工作狂，每天工作十几个小时，只睡四五个钟头，最后积劳成疾还要硬撑着，不肯说一声累。
企业家背负的精神压力更是常人难以承受的。市场变幻莫测，机会转瞬即逝，每一步都不能行差踏错。长期背负的期望、压力过多，让企业家很容易患上抑郁症。自20世纪80年代以来，中国已经有1200多名企业家因为摆脱不了心理障碍而自杀身亡。
在华为创业维艰的时期，任正非“有半年时间都在做噩梦，半夜常常哭醒” ；陈天桥生重病后，坐飞机或一个人待在酒店都有濒死感；郭家学背负48亿债务，想自杀却发现自己已悲催到求死不能的地步。只因员工对他说：
如果你死了，你就把所有为了梦想而追随你的同事们都害死了。你死了，父母兄弟孩子的痛苦你想过吗？那么多帮助你的朋友的感受你想过吗？你死了，几万名员工的饭碗怎么办……
是啊，身上寄托着如此多的期望，生命早已不只是一个人的。
但不是每个企业家都能撑过这样的艰难。据统计，每逢宏观环境趋冷、出口不景气、银行收贷、民间借贷崩盘、反腐高峰，都会出现大量企业家跑路、自杀，或者遭遇暴力伤害的事件。
企业家身上的“四座大山”
企业家是刚强的，他们像大树一样庇护着所有人；企业家也是脆弱的，他们死扛着四座大山，步履沉重地向前走着。
1.处理政商关系
政商关系问题是最易导致企业死亡的原因。
中国的商业环境中存在着两种资本形态的企业，一种是国有资本，一种是民营企业。
在很多领域，国有资本都处于垄断地位，而民营企业即便做得再好，也只能“跑跑龙套”。
中国一直以来都有着“官本位”的思想，许多官员对民营企业家颐指气使，百般刁难，不扒下企业家的一层皮不罢休。尤其是公有资本参股地方大型民企的情况，这其中的权力平衡真是步步惊心，一不小心就可能万劫不复。
2.内部管理跟不上
中国有超过2000多万个中小企业，这是中国经济的重要支撑力量。它们在创业初期的一切导向就是活下来，因此往往忽略了人才管理制度的建设。
很多民企的一把手都大权在握，事事亲力亲为。对创始人的严重依赖加剧了企业的风险。
3.创一代没有做好交接班
根据“新财富500富人榜”的数据显示，我国50岁以上的民营企业家占比67%。未来五到十年内，我国将有300万家民营企业面临接班换代的问题。
但当大部分创一代开始意识到接班的问题时，时间已经不太来得及了。一般民企接班换代的最常见的模式就是选择家族内部的人接班，如新希望的刘畅、娃哈哈的宗馥莉、碧桂园的杨惠妍。但也有的二代未必愿意接班，比如曹德旺的儿子曹晖。
此外，还有一些企业家选择职业经理人的接班模式，如柳传志把联想的接力棒交给了杨元庆，王石把万科交给了郁亮等等。
4.外界舆论与资本的压力
现今的资本市场下，上市企业董事长的身体状况，跟公司的股票是直接挂钩的。因此，保持健康不光是对自己和家庭的负责，也是对员工、投资人和资本市场的一种交代。
结语
成为一名成功的企业家，是九死一生的历险过程。没有一种向死而生的强大勇气是无法坚持走下去的。
c7.181 商人…
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战略是不能复制的。不能复制的叫艺术品。就像我的脸长成这个样子，这叫做艺术品。人家美容做出来的，是复制品。
企业家要把产品、服务打造成艺术品，无人可以复制和超越。
企业家很难的一点叫知行合一。
未来经济的机会在于强大的内需。
天下没有人靠炒股发财的，只靠投资。投资和炒股是有巨大差异的。
失败者总在怪别人，成功者总在怪自己。
好企业都是诞生在坏时代。
没有阿里巴巴，很多传统零售企业也会倒下。对手越强，你才会越强！
我最遗憾的错误！
01年，我犯了一个错误，我告诉我的18位共同创业同仁，他们只能做小组经理，而所有的副总裁都得从外面聘请。
现在十年过去了，我从外面聘请的人才都走了，而我之前曾怀疑过其能力的人都成了副总或董事。
我相信两个信条：态度比能力重要，选择同样也比能力重要！
不能统一人的思想，但可以统一人的目标！
千万不要相信你能统一人的思想，那是不可能的。
30%的人永远不可能相信你，不要让你的同事为你干活，而让他们为我们的共同目标干活。
团结在一个共同的目标下，要比团结在一个人周围容易的多。
细节好的人格局一般都差！
有人觉得我牛，6分钟说服了孙正义，其实是他说服了我。见孙正义之前，我在硅谷至少被拒绝了40次。
做企业赢在细节，输在格局。
格局，“格”是人格，“局”是胸怀，细节好的人格局一般都差，格局好的人从来不重细节，两个都干好，那叫太有才！
领导者比员工多什么？
领导者永远不要跟下属比技能，下属肯定比你强；如果不比你强，说明你请错人了。
①要比眼光：比他看得远；
②要比胸怀：领导者的胸怀是委屈撑大的，要能容人所不容；
③要比实力：抗失败的能力比他强；一个优秀的领导者的素质就是眼光、胸怀和实力。
中国商人千万别在“红道”上混！
人一辈子要明白钱和权两个东西是绝对不要碰在一起，当了官永远不要想有钱，当了商人千万别想权；
钱和权这两个东西碰在一起就是炸药和雷管碰在一起，必然要爆炸；
胡雪岩的悲哀就在于他是红顶商人；
中国商人千万别在“红道”上混。
高手的竞争论！
一定要争得你死我活的商战，是最愚蠢的。
眼睛中全是敌人，外面就全是敌人。
竞争的时候不要带仇恨，带仇恨一定失败。
竞争乐趣就像下棋一样，你输了，我们再来过，两个棋手不能打架。
真正做企业是没有仇人的，心中无敌，天下无敌。
机会！
如果一个方案有90%的人说“好”的话，我一定要把它扔到垃圾桶里去。
因为这么多人说好的方案，必然有很多人在做了，机会肯定不会是我们的了。
人生在世、在做人，不是做事！
我跟自己讲我们到这个世界上不是来工作的，我们是来享受人生的，我们是来做人不是做事。
如果一辈子都做事的话，忘了做人，将来一定会后悔。
不管事业多成功、多伟大、多了不起，记住我们到这个世界就是享受经历这个人生的体验。
忙着做事一定会后悔。
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正所谓，敌人相见，分外眼红。让人想不到的是，奔驰与宝马这对世纪对手近日的互怼，竟然像极了爱情.
近日，戴姆勒集团CEO、梅赛德斯奔驰全球总裁迪特·蔡澈正式退休，这么大的新闻，怎会少得了老对手宝马的参与？果不其然，宝马及时发布了一支恶搞视频，向蔡澈致敬。
宝马的这波骚操作，看到了开头，你绝对猜不到结尾！
01. 宝马与奔驰的互怼日常
像极了爱情
视频以“蔡澈在奔驰总部的最后一天”为故事背景，只见他在人群的拥护中，与曾经同事握手告别、拍照留念、交还工作牌，伴着热烈的掌声，最后一次坐上了奔驰离开总部大楼。
从车后窗看着渐行渐远的公司大楼，蔡澈脸上的表情显得有些沉默，直到窗外的奔驰LOGO从视线中消失。
看着蔡澈满脸的不舍与落寞，在悠扬纯美的惜别音乐的刺激下，观众被这一幕所触动，不禁感慨宝马是何等的有风度和格局然，而让观众万万没想到的画面出现了。
蔡澈刚与司机道别后，画面中出现“free at last（终于自由了）”……
随之，蔡澈家中的车库缓缓打开，而他则开出了一辆时尚的宝马i8，在汽车的轰鸣声中，驾车而去。What？这是退休后的自我解放，表示终于可以正大光明地开宝马了吗？
当然，恶搞之后，宝马没忘记向蔡澈致敬：“谢谢你，迪特·蔡澈先生，为这么多年来我们鼓舞人心的竞争”。
原本是一场沉重严肃的告别，却被老对手玩出了别具一格的花样。广告短片一经推出，就引来了吃瓜群众的围观。网友们纷纷对这次的广告创意以及宝马奔驰相爱相杀相惜的品牌格局点赞。
02. 集创意和幽默于一体
实现品牌声量和美誉度的双赢
相信看完视频之后，很多小伙伴会有这样的疑问：蔡澈是真人出演吗？显然是不可能的。但是，视频中的演员与蔡澈本人的形象还是非常相似的，而这也是宝马的“用心”之处。
蔡澈于德国时间5月22日卸任戴姆勒集团CEO、梅赛德斯奔驰全球总裁，而宝马中国也于当天及时推出了此支短片。
可见，宝马为了这次的营销，早已做足了准备。而这一准备的背后，则是宝马对竞争对手的关注以及认可。毕竟，没有人会大费周章的去关注一个与自己实力不匹配的对手。
整支短片共53秒，宝马却用了40多秒的时间，让奔驰的总部大楼、车、品牌LOGO等多种元素出现在温情的画面中。
虽然最后的反转近乎恶搞戏谑，却让人对宝马恨不起来。坊间一直流传着“开宝马，坐奔驰”的说法，而宝马正好借助蔡澈卸任放飞自我状态的搞怪，将“坐奔驰、开宝马”的网络热梗诠释的淋漓尽致，也为受众制造了自发传播的话题。
尤其是恶搞完后，宝马又恢复一本正经的真诚脸，向蔡澈多年的付出表示感谢。哪怕奔驰觉得“你在挤兑我”，也没有证据。
宝马想要致敬蔡澈不假，只是顺便给自己打个广告。毕竟两者在商业上存在竞争关系，给自己打广告也是情理之中，所以宝马这支集创意和幽默于一体的致敬广告，既赢得了汽车行业的认同，也娱乐了广大用户，实现宝马品牌声量和美誉度的双赢。
在营销界，不提及、不挤兑、不恶搞竞争对手几乎是所有品牌的共识。但宝马却借着致敬竞争对手的情怀，为自己刷了一把存在感。不得不说，宝马的这波借势营销的玩法，实在是高级！
03. 是竞争还是双赢？
前段时间，宝马中国在微博上发布了这支短片，并配文说明“奔驰一生，宝马相伴”，并顺便艾特了下奔驰。
奔驰也毫不示弱，不仅转发了宝马的微博，还将文案前后句互换，改为“宝马相伴，奔驰一生”，不禁让人感叹，这种相爱相杀的暧昧，真是像极了爱情！
作为BBA三巨头之一的奥迪，虽然在这波互动中被冷落，但也主动出击在微博借势发文找回了存在感，并引发网友的评论“明明是三个人的电影，我却不能有姓名”。
宝马与奔驰这两大品牌实力、知名度、美誉度等都旗鼓相当，因此当人们说到奔驰就会想到宝马，说到宝马就会想到奔驰。
但是，奔驰与宝马毕竟是竞争品牌，而且历经了一个世纪的“战争”。在这100年的历史中，两大品牌之间的竞争，从商业活动开始就从未停止过。
在2016年宝马迎来100周年华诞的时候，奔驰发布了一张祝福海报，并配文说：感谢100年来的竞争，没有你的前30年，真的太孤独。意在说明，奔驰是全球公认的汽车发明者，比宝马早了30年。
宝马立刻进行了反击：“君生我未生，我生君已老”。表明自己风华正茂，而奔驰已经过时了。
奔驰宝马这对欢喜冤家，已经互相挤兑了一个世纪，但就是在他们这种永不缺看点的相爱相杀中，奔驰和宝马分别赢得了一批唯粉，甚至是CP粉，从而实现了双赢的局面。
另一则广告文案大战，2016年奔驰E级关羽“过5关，斩6将”系列广告大战，据说当时热度直接盖过了里约奥运会开幕式，这次大战奔驰出先手，引发宝马紧急出招，火药味十足。
就在大家以为他俩还要继续“火拼”下去的时候，画风突变，转身借着奥运，情意绵绵，温情脉脉的相互秀起恩爱来。
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人成熟与不成熟跟年龄没有关系。人成熟不成熟，就是你能不能站在对方的角度去看待事物，就是能不能把我的世界变成你的世界。这个社会有很多的成年人，还没有脱离幼稚的行为。一点小事情就跟别人争来争去。
人不成熟的第一个特征：立即要回报
他不懂得只有春天播种，秋天才会收获。很多人在做任何事情的时候，刚刚付出一点点，马上就要得到回报。（学钢琴，学英语等等，刚开始就觉得难，发现不行，立即就要放弃。）很多人做生意，开始没有什么成绩，就想着要放弃，有的人一个月放弃，有的人三个月放弃，有的人半年放弃，有的人一年放弃。放弃是一种习惯，一种典型失败者的习惯。所以说你要有眼光，要看得更远一些，眼光是用来看未来的！
对在生活中有放弃习惯的人，有一句话一定要送给你：“成功者永不放弃，放弃者永不成功”。那为什么很多的人做事容易放弃呢？美国著名成功学大师拿破仑希尔说过：
穷人有两个非常典型的心态：
1、永远对机会说：“不”；
2、总想“一夜暴富”。
今天你把什么机会都放到他的面前，他都会说“不”。就是今天你开饭店很成功，你把你开饭店的成功经验，发自内心的告诉你的亲朋好友，让他们也去开饭店，你能保证他们每个人都会开饭店吗？是不是照样有人不干。
所以这是穷人一个非常典型的心态，他会说：“你行，我可不行！”。一夜暴富的表现在于，你跟他说任何的生意，他的第一个问题就是“挣不挣钱”，你说“挣钱”，他马上就问第二个问题“容易不容易”，你说“容易”，这时他跟着就问第三个问题“快不快”，你说“快”！这时他就说“好，我做！”呵呵，你看，他就是这么的幼稚！
大家想一想，在这个世界上有没有一种：“又挣钱，又容易，又快的”，没有的，即使有也轮不到我们，所以说在生活中，我们一定要懂得付出。那为什么你要付出呢？因为你是为了追求你的梦想而付出的，人就是为了希望和梦想活着的，如果一个人没有梦想，没有追求的话，那一辈子也就没有什么意义了！
在生活中你想获得什么，你就得先付出什么。你想获得时间，你就得先付出时间，你想获得金钱，你得先付出金钱。你想得到爱好，你得先牺牲爱好。你想和家人有更多的时间在一起，你先得和家人少在一起。
但是，有一点是明确的，你在这个项目中的付出，将会得到加倍的回报。就象一粒种子，你把它种下去以后，然后浇水，施肥，锄草，杀虫。最后你收获的是不是几十倍，上百倍的回报。
在生活中，你一定要懂得付出，你不要那么急功近利，马上想得到回报，天下没有白吃的午餐，轻轻松松是不可能成功的。
一定要懂得先付出！
人不成熟的第二个特征：不自律
不自律的主要表现在哪里呢？
1不愿改变自己：
你要改变自己的思考方式和行为模式。你要改变你的坏习惯。其实，人与人之间能力是没有多大区别，区别在于思考方式的不同。一件事情的发生，你去问成功者和失败者，他们的回答是不一样的，甚至是相违背的。
我们今天的不成功是因为我们的思考方式不成功。一个好的公式是：当你种植一个思考的种子，你就会有行动的收获，当你把行动种植下去，你会有习惯的收获，当你再把习惯种植下去，你就会有个性的收获，当你再把个性种植下去，就会决定你的命运。
但是如果你种植的是一个失败的种子，你得到的一定是失败，如果你种植的是一个成功的种子，那么你就一定会成功。
很多人有很多的坏习惯，如：看电视，打麻将，喝酒，泡舞厅，他们也知道这样的习惯不好，但是他们为什么不愿意改变呢？因为很多人宁愿忍受那些不好的生活方式，也不愿意忍受改变带来的痛苦。
2愿意背后议论别人：
如果在生活中，你喜欢议论别人的话，有一天一定会传回去，中国有一句古话，论人是非者，定是是非人。
3消极，抱怨：
你在生活中喜欢那些人呢？是那些整天愁眉苦脸，整天抱怨这个抱怨哪个的人，还是喜欢那些整天开开心心的人。如果你在生活中是那些抱怨的，消极的人的话，你一定要改变你性格中的缺陷。如果你不改变的话，你是很难适应这个社会的。你也是很难和别人合作的。
生活当中你要知道，你怎样对待生活，生活也会怎样对待你，你怎样对待别人，别人也会怎样对待你。所以你不要消极，抱怨。你要积极，永远的积极下去，就是那句话：成功者永不抱怨，抱怨者永不成功。
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“去年春节前年终奖拿了30多万，今年一分钱都没有了。”在一家20强房企已经工作7年的地产人陈雯雯说道，而她所在的一线区域已是该房企业绩最好的大区。
近日，人力资源管理智库“中智咨询”发布《2021年企业年终奖发放计划调研报告》，称九成企业计划发放2021年终奖，41%的企业年终奖额度上涨，近六成企业发放时间为2022年1月。过去，地产行业是年终奖发放“大户”，比较知名的案例是曾有TOP3房企区域总领到过上亿元年终分红，但今年已临近春节，地产圈一片哀叹，地产人不仅不敢奢望年终奖，能保住工作已经是幸运的。
“过去几年，别说几十万，几百万的年终奖在地产行业也不算啥。我记得三年前一家地产公司年会直接撒钱，员工跪地疯抢钞票还上过新闻。”另一家20强房企营销口员工王浩感慨，当年地产圈年终奖有多刺激，现在的落差感就有多强。
年终奖逐月被砍
2021年房企销售遇冷，融资枯竭、资金链紧张，根据克而瑞统计，百强房企销售增速罕见负增长3.5%，近两成百强房企业绩下滑超过10%，逾八成房企未完成全年业绩目标。在这样的行业形势下，地产人完不成KPI，被减少或彻底砍掉年终奖已极为常见。
“我们公司收入大头其实就是靠年终奖，过去即便是基层的普通经理级别，到春节前也会发10个月工资。”王浩表示，以总监级别为例，如果总打包年薪为80万，那么有接近一半的钱都以年终奖形式发放，到了集团营销总这个级别，一年几百万元年终奖不在话下。
王浩说，2021年上半年，公司上上下下都觉得一切正常，认为一年的收入将会如常，转折点在9月份，已经连续两个月销售额大跌后，公司内部盛传年终奖将打折发放，“从10个月工资调为8个月工资”。老板开大会时抚慰员工称，行业情况比较艰难，公司不会裁员，会与大家共克时艰。
又过了两个月，情势急转直下，内部又盛传年终奖只剩下2-3个月工资。到了12月，公司终于顶不住压力，区域合并、裁员、取消年终奖逐步实施。王浩加入地产行业5年，第一次领不到年终奖，“没被裁员已经很庆幸了”。
陈雯雯出身南方小城的普通家庭，从知名985、211大学毕业后，一直在某20强房企业绩最强的区域从事一线管理工作，随着该公司业绩的扩张，她的年终奖从十几万涨到了30多万，“感觉自己在同龄人中成了小富婆”。不过让她难受的是，2021年比任何一年都更忙，结果在11月份时得知，年终奖泡汤了。
“地产的苦日子来了，我算是幸运的，所在区域业绩比较强，一些弱区已经被裁撤了，眼看着很多同事离职，集团总部的管理层多数也降薪了，职位越高降得越多，很多高管拿着半薪工作。”陈雯雯表示。
李菲则供职于一家30强房企的控股总部，该房企被称为业界黑马，近5年扩张速度很快，在地产爆发增长的时候，老板招来一大批人放在控股总部，尝试进行各种眼花缭乱的组织架构改革，结果2021年下半年开始，该公司的模式也玩不转了，控股总部的人员冗余，许多人闲着没事干。2022年伊始，李菲等人皆被通知停薪留职，年终奖也全部取消。数日前，李菲被通知裁员，她早就料到这一天，准备拿到N+1赔偿后，好好过个年再谋划未来的人生。
致富手段都失灵了
“过去地产人挣钱怎么会只靠工资和年终奖。”王浩对记者表示，其实身边地产人能够发家致富的，在领取固定年薪之外，还会利用很多合法渠道，比如佣金、跟投、内部买房、内部理财、员工持股。
不过，跟投、理财、持股这些方式，属于把自己的钱交给公司，“赌一把”的性质很强，有人赚翻了，有些人则倾家荡产。
跟投制度兴起于2013年，是指将个人的钱投入公司项目中，项目干得好，就可以参与分红，但如果项目亏损，个人也跟着亏损。个人利益和公司绑定，一荣俱荣，一损俱损。
2015年-2018年，在头部房企带动下，房企跟投进入高潮期，不少房地产高管通过跟投制度一年获利数千万元。2016年，某区域总裁通过跟投获得超过一个亿收入。后来一位业内知名职业经理人曾对记者透露，他在房企担任区域总裁期间，通过灵活运用跟投制度，实际分红20多亿元。拿到这笔钱后，他开了属于自己的地产公司。
理财指公司内部集资的资金池，一般来说利息较高，一位地产人对记者表示，自己周围的同行，超过一半都参与了地产公司理财，普通员工理财数额在30-50万不等，年化利息在10%-15%。近年来房地产项目利润越来越薄，许多项目只盈利2%-5%，甚至还有不少亏损，跟投制度不再受欢迎，于是许多人把钱投入了公司理财中，固定收取利息。
持股则是通过购买公司股票的方式，将个人财产与公司利益进行绑定，近年来不少房企以及房企的物业板块IPO，地产高管也认购持有了公司股票，在上市后赚了一笔。但2021年地产股普遍走弱，较为知名的案例是阳光城前执行董事长朱荣斌曾花1.36亿元入手阳光城股票，结果近期离职前股价跌去一半，套现部分亏损3000多万元，未能套现部分浮亏4000多万元，外界解读称朱荣斌白打工四年，还赔上数千万身家。
不过，一位地产圈知情人士称，过去地产高管收入很高，通过跟投等各种形式分红不菲，即便如今地产股票暴跌产生数千万亏损，也不太可能出现“白打工”的情况。
但对于普通地产员工来说，参与跟投、理财、持股等，撞上房地产市场较差、房企暴雷的情况，损失就再所难免了，很多地产人2021年不光被裁员、被取消年终奖，还将自己的身家折在了公司这些理财项目里面，失业后又加入了讨薪、讨钱大军。
过去，佣金和内部买房，也是地产人增长财富的手段，但仅限于房地产兴盛时期。早2013年时，绿城一位销冠个人全年销售额高达3.99亿元，佣金收入超过500万，成为那时候的致富传奇。内部买房则一开始是地产公司在去化不佳内部处理房源的手段，由于房地产的周期性，部分房企员工发现自己可以低吸高抛，即在项目销路差时，自己掏钱把房子买下，当房地产市场恢复元气时，再将房源更名卖出，或者一直放在自己名下自住或出租。王浩称，自己有同事通过内部买房，资产增长了几百万元。
但是在房地产不景气的时候，拖欠佣金成了常态，内部买房也成了任务摊派，人人避而不及。
“如今大浪淘沙，钱没那么好赚了，但是我相信只要大家还有改善住房的需求，优秀的地产人才仍有机会。2022年，先不要去想赚钱的事情，而是想想如何学习、沉淀。”陈雯雯对记者说道。
e5 圣经辅导: …
Not to conduct our lives in futile/false thinking. 不要用无益/虚假的思维支配我们的生活.
Recognizing the condition of unbelievers (v.18-19) 对不信者行为的认识 (18-19 节)
18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.
18 他们心地昏昧,与 神所赐的生命隔绝了,都因自己无知,心里刚硬。 19 良心既然丧尽,就放纵私欲,贪行种种的污秽。
Their understanding is full of darkness.他们心底昏迷.
They are alienated from God.他们与 神隔绝.
They are full of ignorance because of hardness of heart 他们因心里刚硬而满了无知
This has profound implications for the Christian counselor.这对基督徒辅导有深远的影 响.
According to Biblical truth (v.20-21) 基于圣经真理(20-21 节)
20 But that is not the way you learned Christ!—21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus,
20 你们学了基督,却不是这样。21 如果你们听过他的道,领了他的教,学 了他的真理,
It is assumed that you are being taught.假设你被教导.
The focus is on the gospel.以福音为焦点.
The application is drawn from the gospel.从福音中汲取应用.
Through Biblical Transformation (v.22-24a) 藉着圣经改变 (22-24 节)
22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 30Foundations of Biblical Counseling 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
22 就要脱去你们从前行为上的旧人。这旧人是因私欲的迷惑,渐渐变坏的。 23 又要将你们的心志改换一新。24 并且穿上新人。这新人是照著 神的形 像造的,有真里的仁义,和圣洁。
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Put off the old person you were.脱去你从前的旧人.
Renew/rebuild the way you think.更新/重建思维方式.
Put on the new person you are becoming.穿上正在改变的新人.
Conforming to who we are (v.24b) 与我们的身份相称 (24 节)
24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
24 并且穿上新人。这新人是照著 神的形像造的,有真里的仁义,和圣洁。
The pattern is that we have been molded in the likeness of God
模型就是按照上帝的样式来塑造我们。
The product of that molding is in true righteousness and holiness
这样塑造的果效就是真正的仁义与圣洁。
Does the Hard Work in Counsel 在辅导中作苦工
Our text: 2 TIMOTHY 2:14-26 提后 2:14-26 Through this text I want to listen to the instruction given to Timothy and make application to the counselor. I intend for this to be equally applied to both pastoral and professional counselors.
藉着这段经文我想听下保罗给提摩太的教导,并应用到辅导者身上。我希望这对教牧辅 导及专业咨询同样适用.
Skilled in the Word 技巧的语言(14-18 节) (v.14-18)
14 Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers. 15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be 31Foundations of Biblical Counseling ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth. 16 But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness, 17 and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18 who have swerved from the truth, saying that the resurrection has already happened. They are upsetting the faith of some.
14 你要使众人回想这些事,在主面前嘱咐他们,不可为言语争辩。这是没 有益处的,只能败坏听见的人。15 你当竭力,在 神面前得蒙喜悦,作无 愧的工人,按着正意分解真理的道。16 但要远避世俗的虚谈。因为这等人 必进到更不敬虔的地步。17 他们的话如同毒疮,越烂越大。其中有许米乃 和腓理徒。18 他们偏离了真道,说复活的事已过,就败坏好些人的信心。
All counselors who want to be Biblical must be skilled in the Word. You may be able in other areas, you may be greatly educated and widely read, but this is to be your essential skill. You must be able to handle the Bible. You must know it, study it, understand it, make application from it. You must do so correctly. You must do so in a way that is pleasing to God and will be approved by Him when you stand on the final day.
所有想做圣经方面的辅导者必须熟悉 神的道。或许你在其他领域很有能力,或许你 受过高等教育、知识渊博,然而对圣经是熟悉是作辅导的基本功。你必须有运用圣 经的能力。这就需要你知道它、学习它、明白它、运用它,并且能够准确地去做, 用讨神喜悦的方式去做,这样你就可以在那日坦然无惧的站在神面前。
I too often find that Christian counselors know the DSM IV or the latest greatest theory of psychology better than they know their Bibles. This is a great shame. I am not saying that you should set aside these other things. But I am saying that you cannot be an approved Christian counselor until you have become skilled in God’s Word.
我经常发现基督徒辅导者对 DSMIV(注:Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders 《诊断与统计手册:精神障碍》)或心理学最前沿伟大的理论所 知道的比圣经还要多。真是可怜!我并不是说你们要把其他的丢在一边,而是说这 样你们就不可能成为一名被别人所认可的基督徒辅导者,除非你熟悉 神的话。
Holy in Life 圣洁的生活(19-21) (v.19-21)
19 But God’s firm foundation stands, bearing this seal: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity.” 20 Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.
19 然而 神坚固的根基立住了。上面有这印记说,主认识谁是他的人。又 说,凡称呼主名的人,总要离开不义。20 在大户人家,不但有金器银器, 使用“开始”选项卡将 也有木器瓦器。有作为贵重的,有作为卑贱的。21 人若自洁,脱离卑贱的 事,就必作贵重的器皿,成为圣洁,合乎主用,豫备行各样的善事。
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Christian counselors must be holy people. They must not be enslaved to sin or to sins. They must be able to live an exemplary life that is pleasing to God. I believe that all Christian counselors should at least meet the qualifications of a deacon or deaconess.
基督徒辅导者必须是圣洁的国民,不被罪恶捆绑,不犯罪作恶。过着一种讨 神喜悦、 为别人所效法的生活。并且我认为基督徒辅导者应该至少符合执事标准。
Committed to loving relationships 爱中持守联络(22-23 节)(v.22-23)
22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23 Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.
22 你要逃避少年的私欲,同那清心祷告主的人追求公义,信德,仁爱,和 平。23 惟有那愚拙无学问的辩论,总要弃绝。因为知道这等事是起争竞的。
Christian counselors are to be faithful to their church family and fellowship. I don’t care who you are – you must be committed to living and loving within a church body. You must not free-lance. You must not operate as though you do not need to be involved in authentic Christian relationships. You are to pursue your Christianity “along with all those who call on the name of the Lord from a pure heart”
基督徒辅导者要忠于自己的教会、家庭及团契(译者:注意此处作者把教会放在第 一位)。不管你是谁,你必须委身教会,在教会中生活、相爱,因为你并不是一个 不受约束的自由人。如果你认为不需要参与正统基督徒的关系,那你也不准从事圣 经辅导这项工作。你要“同那清心祷告主的人”追求基督信仰。
Qualified as a servant 仆人的条件(24 节) (v.24)
24 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil,
24 然而主的仆人不可争竞,只要温温和和的待众人,善于教导,存心忍耐,
Here are the Biblical ministry, serving qualifications:以下是圣经辅导事工与服事条件:
Not given to quarrels, arguments, debates because counselors can often be legalistic, moralistic, combative, argumentative arising from self-focused pride
不可争竞、吵闹、辩论,因为辅导者常因关注自我而来的骄傲(self-focused pride 或自义)使自己变得律法主义、惯于说教、争强好胜、善于争辩。
Actually kind to everyone because counselees need to see the mercy and love of God incarnated through you.
对每一位被辅导者要有实实在在的仁慈,因为他们需要在你身上看到 神的 怜悯、慈爱。
Able to teach, because counselees need clear instruction from God’s Word.
有教导人的能力,因为被辅导者需要从上帝的话中得到清晰的指教.
Patient when sinned against, because counselees will sin against you.
别人犯罪得罪你时要心存忍耐,因为被辅导者都有得罪你的可能性.
Corrects even opponents gently 温柔劝戒抵挡者(25 节) (v.25)
25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. 25 用温柔劝戒那抵挡的人。
In the market place or in the church hall, we need to be committed to two important things:
不管是在市场还是教会,有两件重要的事情需要我们去做:
That we will correct those who are wrong.我们要纠正犯错误的人.
That we will do so gently.我们要温柔地去纠正.
Depends on God for change 在于上帝(对人)的改变(25 节) (v.25)
God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth,
25 或者给他们悔改的心,可以明白真道。
The Christian counselor cannot change people. 基督徒辅导者不能改变一个人.
The Christian counselor must be willing to allow God to change people.
基督徒辅导者必须愿意让 神去改变.
Understands the real issues 明白实质问题 (v.26)
26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.
26 叫他们这已经被魔鬼任意掳去的,可以醒悟,脱离他的网罗。
Through God’s giving repentance the counselee: 藉着上帝赐给一颗悔改的心,被辅导者:
Comes to true, godly reason – they come to their senses. 回归原本、敬虔的理性——可以醒悟.
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Escape Satan’s trap and captivity and so are set free to be pleasing to God.
脱离撒旦的网罗与权势,得以自由、为 神所喜悦.
Think about this 想一想
Timothy’s story.提摩太的故事.
Your story.你的故事.
In the market place and in the church hall, in the professional setting and in the pastoral setting:
在市场和教会中,一个是专业环境,一个是教牧环境:
Be the kind of person God calls all Christians to be. 成为 神所要求的基督徒式人物.
Be the kind of person that sets an example for others. 成为别人的榜样.
Do the hard work of being an instrument of hope and help. 做苦工,成为别人希望与帮助的使者.
Warn, admonish and correct when others are sinning or foolish.
在别人陷在罪中或愚昧无知时,去提醒、警戒、指教他们.
Depend on God to change people through this good work. 藉此善工,靠 神改变人.
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THE TRANSFORMING PURPOSES OF BIBLICAL COUNSELING 圣经辅导的改变目标
Points of connection 连接点
A personal story: Sara’s story 个人故事:Sara 的故事
A living metaphor: We are like trees, bearing fruit.活隐喻:我们像结果子的树,
What is God doing in people’s lives? 上帝在人的生活中做什么?
Why is Job suffering? 约伯为何受苦?
Why does David spend so many years running from Saul? 大卫为何数年躲避扫罗追捕?
Why does Jesus live a fully human life for 33 years and then die like a criminal?
耶稣为何在世为人只有 33 年,最后却如罪犯般死去?
Our Primary Aim 我们的最初目标
To be pleasing to God in all things so as to bring real hope and help to people for God’s glory. Here is the trajectory of God’s agenda.
为了上帝的荣耀,在万事上讨 神喜悦,我们要把真正的希望与帮助带给人们。下面是 神计划的轨迹:
2 Corinthians 5:9 – We make our aim to be pleasing to God.
林后 5:9—我们立了志向,要得主的喜悦。
Hebrews 11:6 – Without faith, it is impossible to please God. 来 11:6—人非有信就不能得 神的喜悦。
Ephesians 5:10 – We are constantly trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.
弗 5:10—总要察验何为主所喜悦的事。
Colossians 1:9-12 – Pray (and counsel) that you may know God’s will so that you may live in a manner worthy of the Lord to please Him in all aspects.
西 1:9-12—满心知道 神的旨意,好叫你们行事为人对得起主,凡事蒙他喜悦。
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9 And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. 11 May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light.13 He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
9 因此,我们自从听见的日子,也就为你们不住的祷告祈求,愿你们在一切 属灵的智慧悟性上,满心知道 神的旨意。10 好叫你们行事为人对得起主, 凡事蒙他喜悦,在一切善事上结果子,渐渐的多知道 神。11 照他荣耀的 权能,得以在各样的力上加力,好叫你们凡事欢欢喜喜的忍耐宽容。12 又 感谢父,叫我们能与众圣徒在光明中同得基业。13 他救了我们脱离黑暗的 权势,把我们迁到他爱子的国里。14 我们在爱子里得蒙救赎,罪过得以赦 免。
Help others to fully know God’s will; So that they will live in a way that is worthy; Pleasing God, bearing fruit, and knowing God better. Help others to joyfully and patiently endure With God’s kind of strength and power Because of all that God has done in saving then.
帮助人完全明白上帝的旨意; 这样他们就可以有意义的生活; 讨 神喜悦、多结果子、多认识 神。 用 神的力量与大能 帮助人欢喜忍受、恒久忍耐 因为上帝在救赎中已经成就了。
Understanding Life Biblically 从圣经角度理解生命
Some simple models to help the counselor and the counselee understand life Biblically. While they are neither exhaustive nor comprehensive, they are intended to explain in such a way that you can Scripturally interpret what is going on.
下面几个简单模型可以帮助辅导者与被辅导者从圣经的角度来理解生命。虽然它们既不 详细又不综合,却试图用一种方法来帮你从圣经的角度来诠释所发生的。
These models are developed from the root, tree and fruit metaphors that are often used in the Scriptures. I am indebted to Dave Powlison and Paul Tripp for the basic ideas.
这些模型中根、树及果子,其隐喻都在圣经中用到。这些观点我是受 Dave Powlison 和 Paul Tripp 的启发得到的。
Primary Scriptures 基要经文
Jeremiah 17:5-10 and Psalm 1 耶 17:5-10、诗 1
5 Thus says the Lord: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord. 6 He is like a shrub in the desert, and shall not see any good come. He shall dwell in the parched places of the wilderness, in an uninhabited salt land. 7 “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. 8 He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.” 9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? 10 “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.”
5 耶和华如此说,倚靠人血肉的膀臂,心中离弃耶和华的,那人有祸了。 6 因他必像沙漠的杜松,不见福乐来到,却要住旷野乾旱之处,无人居住 的硷地。 7 倚靠耶和华,以耶和华为可靠的,那人有福了。 8 他必像树栽于水旁,在河边扎根,炎热来到,并不惧怕,叶子仍必青翠, 在乾旱之年毫无挂虑,而且结果不止。9 人心比万物都诡诈,坏到极处,谁能识透呢? 10 我耶和华是鉴察人心,试验人肺腑的,要照各人所行的和他作事的 结果报应他。
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People as root and fruit 人如根与果子
Here is the simple representation of people as root and fruit. There is the root, the source or cause of all that is displeasing to God.
在这里,根与果子是人简单的呈现。根,是不讨 神喜悦的来源或原因(译者有些 不解)。
Three tree model 三种树模型
Proverbs 4:23 箴 4:23
“23 Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.“
23 你要保守你心,胜过保守一切。(或作你要切切保守你心)因为一生的果效,是 由心发出。
Triangle – The good, sovereign and wise God 三角——良善、全能、智慧的 神
We do not live in a world governed by chance 我们生活的世界并不是偶然存在的
We do live in a world ordered by God 这个世界是 神支配的。
Circle – The situations of life 圆圈——生活的处境
This is the world in which we live including our body 我们生活的世界中包含着我们自己的肉体。
Heat – the difficulties, hardships, brokenness including afflictions
月亮——困苦、艰难、破碎中的痛苦
Dew – the good, blessings, common grace of God 水珠——上帝的良善、赐福及普遍恩典
Tree/Fruit- Our Response 树/果子——我们的回应
Response here is in our choices/actions and our emotions/affections Good tree and good fruit Thorn bush and bad fruit
这里的回应在于我们的选择/行为及情感。 好树与好果子 坏树与坏果子
Heart – Our Inner Person 心——我们内在的自我
The source, root, spring of our actions and emotions
我们行为、情感的源头
The heart “thinks” with words and images… 内心用语言、图像去“思考”.
The heart’s thinking is either pleasing to God or not,
心的思考要么讨 神喜悦,要么.
{{ We will go into more detail in a moment about the heart’s functions }}
{{我们稍后就心的功能作一详细论述}}
Cross – All of God’s work in Christ for us 十字架——上帝在基督里为我们所成就的一切
Not merely the death of Jesus on the cross – the whole gospel of His life, death, resurrection with how the Bible interprets and applies it. All of God’s provision for us, including the Bible, God’s people, the church, Shepherds (pastors)
全备的福音在圣经中得以诠释与运用,这全备的福音不仅仅是耶稣在十字架 上的死——还有祂的生、死与复活, 神为我们所预备的一切,包括圣经、祂的子民、教会、牧者。
Stream –Work of the Spirit to apply the cross to our lives
溪水—— 圣灵的工作,把十字架的真理应用在我们的生活之中
Immediate work of the Spirit through the Word… Mediated work of the Spirit through people.
圣灵藉着道作立时的工作 圣灵藉着人作介导的工作
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Understanding Motivations Biblically 从圣经角度 理解动机
Discerning the beliefs and wants of the heart, the inner person. 识别你心里、内在自我的信仰和欲望
Actions and Emotions 行动与情绪
Beliefs and Wants 信仰与欲望
Can we see this at work in the Bible? 我们能在圣经中看到动机是如何起作用的吗?
Exposition of Genesis 3:1-7ff 创 3:1-7 的阐述
Think about this 想一想
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Our understanding of the Christian Bible.对圣经的认知.
2 PETER 1:3-9: 彼后1:3-9 3 His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, 4 by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. 5 For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge,
3 神的 神能已经将一切关乎生命和虔敬的事赐给我们,皆因我们认识那用自己荣耀和美德召我们的主。4 因此他已将又宝贵又极大的应许赐给我们,叫我们既脱离世上从情欲来的败坏,就得与 神的性情有分。5 正因这缘故,你们要分外的殷勤。有了信心,又要加上德行。有了德行,又要加上知识。
We have all we need for life and godliness in our knowledge of God.因认识 神,我们拥有生命与虔敬
We have all we need for life and godliness by faith in His promises; that is, believing in an obeying way what God has said He has done and will do for us.
因对 神应许的信心,我们拥有生命与虔敬;在顺服中确信 神所说的祂为我们做的并将为我们做的一切。
We have all we need for life and godliness in this world where sinful desires tend to rule and master us.
在这个情欲试图掳掠、辖制我们的世上,我们拥有生命与虔敬。
We have all we need for life and godliness as we make every effort to grow, changeand be pleasing to God.
在我们竭力追求成长、改变、讨 神喜悦的同时,我们拥有生命与虔敬。
We have all we need for life and godliness because we will arrive safely at heaven’s home.
因我们将来会平安归天家,我们拥有生命与虔敬。
Our text: 2 TIMOTHY 3:10-17 – the Christian and his Bible.
经文提后3:10-17节 ——基督徒与圣经
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How it shapes the counselor (v.10-11)圣经如何塑造辅导者 (10-11 节)
10 You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness, 11 my persecutions and sufferings that happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, and at Lystra—which persecutions I endured; yet from them all the Lord rescued me.
10 但你已经服从了我的教训,品行,志向,信心,宽容,爱心,忍耐,11以及我在安提阿,以哥念,路司得,所遭遇的逼迫,苦难。我所忍受是何等的逼迫。但从这一切苦难中主都把我救出来了。
Counselees are sufferers and strugglers.被辅导者是受害者与争战者
Counselors are suffers and strugglers.辅导者是位受害者与争战者
People in the Bible are sufferers and strugglers 圣经中的人是受害者与争战者
Here is an unchanging point of contact for all three.对以上三者来说,这是一个不变的连接点
Why the counselor needs it (v.12-13)辅导者为何需要圣经(12-13 节)
In the Bible, the Christian counselor has an explanation for some of the great questions people struggle with:
在圣经里面,基督徒辅导者对人们与之争战的很多问题都可以找到一个解释。
12 Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 13 while evil people and impostors will go on from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.
12 不但如此,凡立志在基督耶稣里敬虔度日的,也都要受逼迫。13 只是作恶的,和迷惑人的,必越久越恶,他欺哄人也被人欺哄。
We understand deep seated desires to be pleasing to God.我们知道自己从内心深处渴望讨 神喜悦.
We understand that people will be sinned against.我们知道人会犯罪得罪.
Biblical counseling has a clear explanation for why we suffer at the hands of others.
圣经辅导对我们在别人手中受苦的原因有一个清晰的解释.
Biblical counseling calls people to a godly response to being sinned against
圣经辅导号召人们在犯罪中有一个虔诚的回应.
Biblical counseling sees suffering, even at the hands of evil people, as being under God’s sovereign control.
圣经辅导看到,苦难,即使是在恶人的手中,也同样在 神主权掌控之中.
Biblical counseling connects that kind of suffering with Jesus’ suffering.
圣经辅导把此类苦难与耶稣所遭受的苦难联系在一起.
We understand how evil came to be, the horrific damage it has done, how God has limited it and controlled and finally how He has defeated it and will eventually eradicate it.
我们知道罪是如何来的,它给我们的可怕伤害, 神如何限制它、管辖它、如何击败它并 且最后灭绝它.
We understand how vulnerable we are to lies and to being deceived.
知道我们是在撒谎与被欺骗的面前是多么的脆弱.
So we need the Word of God to give us God’s interpretation of the world, of our situations and of us. He has made it, He has given it meaning and He has communicated that meaning to us in His Word (Francis Schaffer)
因此我们需要 神的道,就上帝对这个世界、我们的处境以及我们自己做一个诠释。祂创造了世界、赋予它存在的意义,并藉着祂的道把这意义传达给了我们(Francis Schaffer)。
What it requires of the counselor (v.14-15)圣经对辅导者的要求(14-15 节)
The Bible itself makes deep demands of the counselor. Note them here.
圣经本身对辅导者做了很严格的要求,先录于此:
14 But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it 15 and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
14但你所学习的,所确信的,要存在心里。因为你知道是跟谁学的。15并且知道你是从小明白圣经。这圣经能使你因信基督耶稣有得救的智慧。
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Commitment to the truth of the Scripture 持守圣经真理
While there is disagreement among Christian counselors as to the value and use of truth in the world, there must be no disagreement about the truth in the Bible. The Scriptures are the unfailing, without error, authoritative source of God’s self-disclosure.
虽然基督徒就真理在今生的价值与应用方面意见不同,但对圣经的真理性却无异议。圣经经文是 神在呈现自我中经久不衰地、毫无差错的、权威的来源。
Carefulness over who we are learning the Scripture from 谨慎经文传授者
The Bible calls us and warns us to be careful of our teachers. Who is teaching us the Bible? This is not about their degrees, their certifications, their education – it is about their Christian character and conduct.
圣经号召并提醒我们要当心我们的教师。谁在教授我们圣经?这不关乎他们的学位、资质、教育水平——而在于所具有的基督徒的品性与行为。
Dependence on the Scripture to do the work 靠圣经做神工
Do you believe that the Bible is able? This is not just ability to bring people to be saved. That is not what this says. It is able to make us wise in all that salvation means and brings through faith in Christ.
你相信圣经有能力吗?它不只是有使人得救的能力。在这里,它使我们在救恩层面得着智慧并在基督身上得着信心。
How it equips the counselor (v.16-17)如何用圣经装备辅导者(16-17 节)
Why is this so? Because of the nature, supremacy, authority and sufficiency of the Scripture.
为何要用圣经装备辅导者?原因在于圣经的特性、至高无上性、权威性与充分性。
16 All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.
16 圣经都是 神所默示的,(或作凡 神默示的圣经)于教训,督责,使人归正,教导人学义,都是有益的。17 叫属 神的人得以完全,预备行各样的善事。
In its Source 在圣经源头方面
It is the Scripture, the Bible, the Word of God that is the only inspired, inerrant, infallible revelation. I am going to say this as kindly as I know how: any counselor and any counseling that does not formally and functionally affirm this cannot be Christian.
圣经,作为 神的话是惟一受鼓舞、毫无错误、绝对可靠的启示。我尽可能用最温柔的语言告诉你们我所知道的:
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It reveals the wrath of God and coming judgment
任何一位辅导者、任何一项案例辅导不在形式上及功 能上对圣经加以肯定就不是基督徒。
What about the revelation of God in creation? Consider ROMANS 1:18-23:
神在创造中的启示是怎样的呢?思考罗1:18-23 神的启示显明了上帝的愤怒与将要来的审判
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It renders all people without excuse 神的启示叫所有人无可推诿
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It is mediated through creation but does not reveal anything about the creation
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神虽藉创造物启示却不显明任何关于创造的事情。
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It is suppressed and is substituted by people 神的启示被世人压制、取代
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It is disobeyed and denied by people 世人悖逆、拒绝 神的启示
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In its Utility 在圣经功用方面
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The Bible is generally and specifically useful for all Christian life and ministry.
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圣经对于所有基督徒的生活与事工都有着普遍和特定的功用。
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In its Use 在圣经使用方面
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The Bible is useful in the full scope of dealing with people. These four categories seem to specifically deal with areas we associate now with counseling.
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圣经在大范围处理与人的关系上是非常有用的。以下四类是处理我们现在与辅导相 关的具体范围:
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Teaching – the source, object and the means of instructing people
教导——指导人的来源、目标、方法
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Reproof – the reasons and the way to confront people 责备——与人对质的理由与方法
Correction – the practical steps necessary for being pleasing to God
纠正——为讨 神喜悦而采取的必要性、可行性措施
Instruction in Righteousness – content necessary for a holy life before God.
在义中指教——在 神面前过圣洁生活所必需的内容
While there is some usefulness in knowledge that comes from the world, there is no knowledge necessary for Christian counseling outside of the Scripture. Yes, we can know much more about how the body functions from general knowledge – but it can tell us little about how the soul functions. It can tell us nothing about the most important relationship a person has, the relationship with Christ.
世上虽然有很多有用的知识,但对于基督徒的辅导来说圣经之外并没有有用的知识。 确实是这样,我们可以从常识中获取很多关于人体机能的知识,但在灵魂机能方面 却知之甚少。一个人所拥有的最重要的关系——与基督的关系,这是一般的知识不 能告诉我们的。
In its Purpose 在圣经旨意方面
The Bible makes the Christian competent. Our English translations struggle with the Greek word here. Perfect here means complete, competent, meeting the design specifications. The Bible is what makes the Christian competent in Christian ministry.
圣经使基督徒满有能力。英文翻译与希腊文的较量就在此。“完美”这里的意思是 彻底的、有能力的、符合规范的。圣经就是让基督徒在事工中满有能力。
In its Product 在圣经果效方面
The Bible can fully equip a person for every good work. The Bible can fully equip a person for the good work of Christian counseling.
圣经能够在每一项善工上完全装备一个人。 圣经能够在基督徒辅导这项善工上完全装备一个人。
Biblical Example for the Use of Scripture 经文应用的圣经案例
Our text: ROMANS 15:4-7 罗 15:4-7 节
25Foundations of Biblical Counseling 圣经辅导基础
4 For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. 5 May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, 6 that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. 7 Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.
4 从前所写的圣经都是为教训我们写的,叫我们因圣经所生的忍耐和安慰, 可以得着盼望。5 但愿赐忍耐安慰的 神,叫你们彼此同心,效法基督耶稣。 6 一心一口,荣耀 神,我们主耶稣基督的父。7 所以你们要彼此接纳,如 同基督接纳你们一样,使荣耀归与 神。
Foundational Truth 基要的真理(4 节) (v.4)
A “for us” trajectory in the writing of the Scriptures… “为我们”的轨迹贯穿在经文的写作之中.
A clear minded understanding of hardship, difficulty and suffering.
对困苦、艰难、苦难有一个清晰理性的认知.
An uplifting purpose in giving us hope. 在给予我们的盼望之中有令人振奋的目标
Transforming Power 改变的力量(5 节) (v.5)
Through Biblical prayer and petition, “may the God grant you to live in harmony”.
(改变的力量)藉着圣经的祷告与祈求:“愿 神叫你们同心”.
With recognizing the character of God. (改变的力量)对上帝品行的认知.
In agreement with God. (改变的力量)与上帝保持一致.
In dealing with specific needs, troubles, hardships, sins.
(改变的力量)在处理特殊需求、困苦、艰难、犯罪中.
God-Centered Purpose 以上帝为中心的目的(6 节) (v.6)
All living is both vertical and horizontal. There is no living that is merely horizontal. All people and particularly Christians must live with the vertical dimension in view.
所有世人的都是垂直与水平的空间中生存(译者:三度空间?),没有人只生活在 水平空间中。一切人,尤其是基督徒必须在别人眼中活出一个垂直高度。(译者: 精神追求?仰望上帝?亦或灵性层面?)
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Particular Command 特殊命令(7 节) (v.7)
Draws a direct line from God’s character through God’s Word to God’s commands.
(特殊命令)画一条直线,该线从上帝的品行开始,连接上帝的道,到达上帝的命 令。
Clearly connects to Christ. (特殊命令)清晰地连接到基督.
Expresses and expects obedience to the direct commands of Christ.
(特殊命令)表示并期待对基督直接命令的顺服.
Think about this 想一想
Our text PSALM 19 诗 19 篇
The Scope of Revelation in Creation (v.1-6) The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork. Day to day pours out speech, and night to night reveals knowledge. There is no speech, nor are there words, whose voice is not heard. Their voice goes out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world. In them he has set a tent for the sun, which comes out like a bridegroom leaving his chamber, and, like a strong man, runs its course with joy. Its rising is from the end of the heavens, and its circuit to the end of them, and there is nothing hidden from its heat.
创造中的启示范围(1-6 节) 诸天述说 神的荣耀,穹苍传扬他的手段。 这日到那日发出言语。这夜到那夜传出知识。 无言无语,也无声音可听。 他的量带通遍天下,他的言语传到地极。 神在其间为太阳安设帐幕。 太阳如同新郎出洞房,又如勇士欢然奔路。 他从天这边出来,绕到天那边。没有一物被隐藏不得他的热气。
The Character and Use of Revelation in Scripture (v. 7-9) The law of the LORD is perfect, reviving the soul; the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple;
the precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes; the fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever; the rules of the LORD are true, and righteous altogether.
经文中启示的特点与运用(7-9 节) 耶和华的律法全备,能苏醒人心。耶和华的法度确定,能使愚人有智慧。 耶和华的训词正直,能快活人心。耶和华的命令清洁,能明亮人的眼目。 耶和华的道理洁净,存到永远。耶和华的典章真实,全然公义。
Our Responsibility to the Scripture (v. 10-13) More to be desired are they than gold, even much fine gold; sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb. Moreover, by them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward. Who can discern his errors? Declare me innocent from hidden faults. Keep back your servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me! Then I shall be blameless, and innocent of great transgression.
我们对经文的回应(10-13 节) 都比金子可羡慕,且比极多的精金可羡慕。比蜜甘甜,且比蜂房下滴的蜜甘 甜。 况且你的仆人因此受警戒。守着这些便有大赏。 谁能知道自己的错失呢?愿你赦免我隐而未现的过错。 求你拦阻仆人,不犯任意妄为的罪。不容这罪辖制我。我便完全,免犯大罪。
Our Prayer in the Light of the Scriptures (v. 14) Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.
在经文亮光中的祷告(14 节) 耶和华我的磐石,我的救赎主阿,愿我口中的言语,心中的意念,在你面 前蒙悦纳。 28Foundations of Biblical Counseling 圣经辅导基础 | 错误!使用“开始”选项卡将 Title 应用于要在此处显示的文字。
Points of connection 连接点
A personal story: a deep, dark depression as a teenager and counsel from a mentor. A living metaphor: the Holy Spirit as a Counselor
个人故事:一个处于极度黑暗、患有抑郁症的少年向一导师寻求咨询。 活隐喻:作为辅导者(中文圣经译为保惠师)的圣灵。
What qualifies us? 我们具备何种条件?
A Christian counselor is one who is to have deep Christian character leading to holy life and effective service.
作为一名基督徒辅导者,要具有基督徒成熟的品性、圣洁的生活、有效的服事。
Lives the New Life in Christ 在基督里活出新样式
Our text: EPHESIANS 4:17-25where Paul issues a general call to Christian people in how they are to live. This is not just for the Christian in the “religious” sphere. This is for the counselor, whether in pastoral or professional counseling.
在弗 4:17-25 节那里,保罗就基督徒如何生活做了一个普遍的号召。这不仅仅针 对在“宗教”范围内的基督徒,对辅导者,不论是在教牧辅导还是专业咨询,也同样适 用。
Obeying the Apostles Commands (v.17) 遵守使徒教训(17 节)
17 Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds.
17 所以我说,且在主里确实的说,你们行事,不要再像外邦人存虚妄的心 行事。
There is a heavenly authority 有一个属天的权柄.
There is an earthly responsibility 有一个属地的职责
Not to conduct our lives as unbelievers do.不要像不信者那样支配我们的生活.
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CHRIST AND BIBLICAL COUNSELING基督与圣经辅导
Points of connection 连接点
A personal story一个人经历
A living metaphor一个活隐喻(查过很多还是不明白,只知道指修辞现象/美学隐喻)
A helpful model一个有益的模型
God is man’s environment 上帝是人的外部环境
Spiritually embattled 四面楚歌的灵性
Socially embedded 社会嵌入
Physically embodied 肉体呈现
Person – dead or living in relation to his ultimate environment
人——死亡或活着与他的最终环境相关
Life’s most important relationship.生命中最重要的关系。
What must people know in order to deal with life’s problems?
为解决生活中的问题,人应该知道什么?
More correctly, who must people know? 更准确的说,人必须知道谁?
What is the most important relationship in a person’s life?
在一个人的生命中什么才是最重要的关系?
How does that relate to Christian counseling?这与基督徒辅导有什么关系?
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Assertion:申明:
The Lord Jesus Christ is central to all Christian life and living and thus must be central toChristian counseling.
主耶稣基督是所有基督徒生命、生活的中心,因此也必须是基督徒辅导的中心。
Many, many texts in the New Testament teach this in varying ways. I am going to focus on this one in Colossians as we think about the centrality of Christ for Christian counseling.
在新约圣经中有很多章节用各样的方式教导这个道理。接下来我要在歌罗西书中就 我们思考的基督在基督徒辅导中的中心性进行集中讨论。
COLOSSIANS 1:24-2:15 presents Jesus Christ to us as: 西 1:24:-2:15 向我们呈现的耶稣基督:
The Key to Christian Maturity (v.24-29) 基督徒成熟的关键(24-29 节)
Through Christ-centered counseling, people will be brought to greater maturity.
通过以基督为中心的辅导,可以使人更成熟。
24 Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the church, 25 of which I became a minister according to the stewardship from God that was given to me for you, to make the word of God fully known, 26 the mystery hidden for ages and generations but now revealed to his saints. 27 To them God chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. 28 Him we proclaim, warning everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone mature in Christ. 29 For this I toil, struggling with all his energy that he powerfully works within me.
24 现在我为你们受苦,倒觉欢乐,并且为基督的身体,就是为教会,要在我肉身上补满基督患难的缺欠。25 我照 神为你们所赐我的职分,作了教会的执事,要把 神的道理传得全备。26 这道理就是历世历代所隐藏的奥秘,但如今向他的圣徒显明了。27 神愿意叫他们知道,这奥秘在外邦人中有何等丰盛的荣耀。就是基督在你们心里成了有荣耀的盼望。28 我们传扬他,是用诸般的智慧,劝戒各人,教导各人。要把各人在基督里完完全全的引到 神面前。29 我也为此劳苦,照着他在我里面运用的大能,尽心竭力。
The Example for Us 为我们作的榜样(24-25 节) (v.24-25)
Paul is an example for us. He models what it means to suffer (v.24) and to serve (v.25).
保罗是我们的榜样。他向我们展示了受苦意味着什么(24 节)、服事意味着什么(25 节)。
The suffering and serving is aimed at making God’s Word more fully known. This has two aspects that are important for us. We are to spread the Word to more people. We are to be sure that people know more of what the Word says.
受苦与服事的目的是让 神的道为更多人所知。这里,有两方面对于我们很重要:我们要把道传给更多的人;我们要确保人们知道更多的道。
The Explanation to Us 向我们作的解释(26-27 节) (v.26-27)
Christ indwells His church. The people of God are the new temple. This was a mystery to the Old Testament saints. We, you and I, are the living stones becoming the dwelling place of God. Each person you deal with is either a possible future living stone through conversion or is presently part of that habitation.
基督居住在祂的教会里面。上帝的子民是新的殿宇。这在旧约中是个奥秘。我们——你和我成为上帝居所的活石。与你打交道的每一个人要么是通过信仰转变成为一块将来的活石,要么目前是这居所的一部分。
Why does this matter? Because it is the core of our hope. At the core of Biblical counseling is not just coping skills. It is teaching your counselee to live in the present mess in view of our future glory. This is part of the meaning of life. This is not merely an escape into a vague, illusionary luminous light of a dimly understood future existence. It is the brilliant, presently illuminating
为什么会这样呢?因为这是我们希望的核心。圣经辅导的核心不仅仅是应对的技能。它教导你的受辅者(咨询者)以我们将来荣耀的角度来看目前在混乱状态中的生活。这是生命意义的一部分。这不仅仅是躲避到一个朦胧理解未来存在的一个模糊的、充满幻觉的亮光之中,更是在当前明亮地呈现着的。
The Goal for Us 为我们设的目标(28 节) (v.28)
Do you see the goal that is established for Christian ministry including counseling? Our goal is to present everyone mature in Christ. So this is an important question for you. Is your counseling working to present people mature in Christ?
你知道为基督徒宣教事工设定的目标中包含辅导吗?我们的目标是要把各人在基督里完完全全的引到 神面前。因此,下面的问题对你来说很重要:你的辅导工作是否把各人在基督里完完全全的引到 神面前?
Biblical counseling in the market place, in the professional setting, will seek to be a gateway, a doorway that opens God’s kingdom for unbelieving people to become “in Christ”. Then they have started on the journey to maturity.
圣经辅导在市场、专业设置中为不信者打开 神的国从而 “在基督里”开辟了一条途径。之后,他们就开始踏上成熟之路了。
Biblical counseling in the church, in the pastoral setting, will seek to helppeople become who God has said they are. It is working to Christian maturity. In China, this is often expressed in terms of Christian wholeness.
圣经辅导在教会、牧师设置中将试图帮助人们成为上帝所说的人。这是个让基督徒成熟的工作。在中国,圣经辅导经常以基督徒整体性的形式表达。
God does not divorce the means from the end. If this is our goal, then there is a God-ordained means to that goal. It is word ministry. It is speaking ministry. It is warning and teaching. It is done with spiritual wisdom. It is truth spoken in love. 11Foundations of Biblical Counseling
圣经辅导基础 上帝不会使这种方式(即辅导)与终结(最终的救恩?)脱离。如果这是我们的目标,那么上帝就会命定一个该目标的实现方式。这是一个语言的事工、传讲的事工;既警告又教导;由灵性智慧做工,在爱中说诚实话。
But God also establishes the content of speaking – “Him we proclaim.” Christ is at the center of what we say. We have insights. We have principles. We have commands. We have who we are and what we are to do. But the ultimate message and goal in all Christian ministry is to bring people into a loving and living relationship with Christ. We are bringing people to Christ.
但是上帝同时确立传讲的内容——“我们所传的是祂”。基督是我们传扬的中心。我们要有洞察力、有原则、有诫命。我们要有我们所是的、所做的。但基督徒所有事工的最终信息和目标就是把人融入到和基督有一个满有爱心、活泼的关系当中。我们要把人带到基督面前。
Now, I want to draw a line for us. Christian counseling that is merely helping people cope with the hardships of life without connecting people to Christ is doing mercy ministry. It is OK. It is like handing out clothes or giving a meal to the homeless. It is a point of contact. But if that is all we are doing, then we are at best merely providing a social service that alleviates mercy. But it is not Christian ministry.
现在,我想为你们划一界限。仅仅帮助人们去处理生活中的难处而没有与基督发生关系的基督徒辅导只是一个慈善事工而已。这也不错,就如同把衣服或者饭菜施舍给无家可归的人。这是接触的一点。但是,如果这是我们所做的一切,那么我们最多也只是提供一个缓解怜悯的社会公益服务。毕竟这不是基督徒事工。
The Power in Us 我们身上的能力(29 节) (v.29)
We are struggling in the hard work of glorifying God through our ministry.God is working in and through us to strengthen and sustain us in that struggle.
我们通过此事工努力工作来荣耀上帝。在这争战中,上帝在我们里面并藉着我们来坚固、保守我们。
Through Christ-centered counseling, people will be brought to greater maturity.
通过以基督为中心的辅导,人们将会更加成熟。
The Center of Christian Knowledge (v.1-5) 基督徒知识的中心 (第 1-5 节)
Through Christian counseling’s use of the truths of Christ’s person and work, people will be able to understand true wisdom and reject false wisdoms.
通过基督徒辅导在属基督的人和事上对真理的应用,人们能够明白真智慧、弃绝假知识。
1 For I want you to know how great a struggle I have for you and for those at Laodicea and for all who have not seen me face to face, 2 that their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, to reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God’s mystery, which is Christ, 3 in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. 4 I say this in order that no one may delude you with plausible arguments. 5 For though I am absent in body, yet I am with you in spirit, rejoicing to see your good order and the firmness of your faith in Christ.
1 我愿意你们晓得我为你们和老底嘉人,并一切没有与我亲自见面的人,是何等的尽心竭力。2 要叫他们的心得安慰,因爱心互相联络,以致丰丰足足在悟性中有充足的信心,使他们真知道 神的奥秘,就是基督。3 所积蓄的一切智慧知识,都在他里面藏着。4 我说这话,免得有人用花言巧语迷惑你们。5 我身子虽与你们相离,心却与你们同在,见你们循规蹈矩,信基督的 心也坚固,我就欢喜了。
A Worthy Purpose 一个满有价值的目标(第 1-2 节) (v.1-2)
Here is how that struggle worked out with Paul – he was involved with people inface-to-face ministry and in prayer.
这里,在保罗身上看出他是何等的尽心竭力——在面对面的侍奉与祷告当中与这些人保持联系。
A Glorious Person 一个满有荣耀的人(第 2-3 节) (v.2-3)
He is working to bring about a full and practical knowledge of Christ so that they are encouraged, unified and confident in the troubles surrounding them.
他的事工是把基督那全备、可行的知识带来,这样他们就可以在困苦的环境中被激励、合一、充满信心。
A Dangerous Problem 一个充满危险的问题(第 4 节) (v.4)
But there are people who will try to persuade them differently. I want to pause hereand think about this a bit:
但是有人用不同的意见来劝说他们。在这里我想暂停一下来思考这个问题:
There are people who attempt to argue against the centrality of Christ inall things, particularly in Christian meaning, ministry and maturity.
有人试图反对基督在一切事上,特别是在基督徒的意义、事工及成熟上的中心性。
These people present persuasive arguments for their case. The argumentsmay be:
这些人为他们的理由陈述了很有说服力的论据。这些论据可能是:
Philosophi cal Argued from a world view that challenges the truth of the Bible Scientific Materialistic arguments using scientific data. In the counseling field this is often done using a medical model. Religious Arguments that use other texts of Scripture or theological constructs to counter the truth of Christ’s centrality Narratives Arguments from people’s stories that put you in a position to be arguing against the experience of people. Rhetorical Arguments using cleverly constructed logic to counter clearly stated truths.
哲学上 以世界观的角度来挑战圣经真理 科学上 唯物论运用科学数据。在辅导领域中常用医疗模式数据整合 宗教上 使用圣经中其它与基督的中心性正好相反经文或神学架构作论点 叙事上 从人们的故事中,把你放在一个位置与人们的经历争辩 修辞上 使用巧妙的构造逻辑来反对清晰阐明的真理
These arguments are deceptive and will attempt to delude (deceive, cheat, mislead, dupe, con) God’s people.
这些论点是很有迷惑性的,企图迷惑(蒙蔽、欺骗、误导、诓骗、欺诈)上帝的子 民。
A Settled People 一群坚固的人们(第 5 节) (v.5)
We must rejoice in and affirm when:我们要欢喜并肯定当:
People are well instructed in the truths of the Scriptures;人们在圣经真理中得到很好的教导。
People believe firmly and immovably in the truths of the Scriptures.
人们在圣经的真理中信仰坚固、信心稳固。
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Through Christian counseling’s use of the truths of Christ’s person and work, people will be able to understand true wisdom and reject false wisdoms.
通过基督徒辅导在属基督的人和事上对真理的应用,人们能够明白真智慧、弃绝假知识。
The Object of Christian Faith (v.6-7)基督徒信心的目标 (6-7 节)
Through Christian counseling, people will be taught to believe in Christ in an obeyingway so as to be full of gratitude.
通过基督徒辅导,人们学会以顺服的方式在基督中信靠,这样就会充满感恩。
6 Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, 7 rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.
6 你们既然接受了主基督耶稣,就当遵他而行。在他里面生根建造,信心坚固,正如你们所领的教训,感谢的心也更增长了。
How We Started 怎样开始
We received the Lord Jesus Christ by faith in what the Bible says.
我们凭借圣经中所说的信心接受主耶稣.
How We Continue 怎样继续
On a daily basis, in every area of our lives, we are to live by faith in what the Bible says.
每天,在我们生活的每一个领域,凭借圣经中所说的信心生活.
How We Succeed 怎样成功
The Bible, for our salvation and our transformation, highlights faith in Christ and obedience to Christ.
为了我们的救恩和改变,圣经强调在基督里的信心及对基督的顺服。
Through Christian counseling, people will be taught to believe in Christ in an obeying way so as to be full of gratitude.
通过基督徒辅导,人们学会以顺服的方式在基督中信靠,这样就会充满感恩
The Provider of Christian Reality (v.8-15)基督徒现实的供应者(8-15 节)
Why is this so? Because Christ is the one who brings us all that it means to be Christians.
为什么会这样呢?因为基督就是把所有成为基督徒的方法带给我们的那位。
Through Christian counseling, people will come to live according to who they are in Christ and what Christ has done for them.
通过基督徒辅导,人们将按照他们在基督中的样式以及基督为他们所作的去生活。
8 See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ. 9 For in him the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily, 10 and you have been filled in him, who is the head of all rule and authority. 11 In him also you were circumcised with a circumcision made without hands, by putting off the body of the flesh, by the circumcision of Christ, 12 having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through faith in the powerful working of God, who raised him from the dead. 13 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, 14 by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. 15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.
8 你们要谨慎,恐怕有人用他的理学,和虚空的妄言,不照着基督,乃照人间的遗传,和世上的小学,就把你们掳去。9 因为 神本性一切的丰盛,都有形有体的居住在基督里面。10 你们在他里面也得了丰盛。他是各样执政掌权者的元首。11 你们在他里面,也受了不是人手所行的割礼,乃是基督使你们脱去肉体情欲的割礼。12 你们既受洗与他一同埋葬,也就在此与他一同复活。都因信那叫他从死里复活神的功用。13 你们从前在过犯,和未受割礼的肉体中死了, 神赦免了你们(或作我们)一切过犯,便叫你们与基督一同活过来。14 又涂抹了在律例上所写,攻击我们有碍于我们的字据,把他撤去,钉在十字架上。15 既将一切执政的掌权的掳来,明显给众人看,就仗着十字架夸胜。 ·
Avoid False Substitutes(v.8) 避免虚假的替代品(8节 ) (代替品有真假之分?)
We are in danger if we accept false substitutes that are not accord with Christ. He is he criteria. He is the standard by which all religious systems, ideas, philosophies, psychologies, sciences and cultures are to be measured. In counseling people, our models and methods must all be measured against the person and work of Christ if it is going to be truly Christian.
如果我们接受与基督不相符的虚假替代品时,我们就会处在危险之中。基督是准绳, 是测量所有宗教体系、理念、哲学、心理学、科学、文化的标准。在我们辅导的人
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群中,如果他们中间有成为真基督徒的,那么我们的治疗模式与方法就必须以基督及祂所作的工为标准。
Accept Christ’s Description of You (v.9-10)接受基督对你的描述(9-10 节)
So, we are to help people accept and live out their identity in Christ. The Spirit through the Word tells us who we are. He tells us what has been done for us, in us and will be completed in us over our lives. Our old selves and the world system tries to give us a different identity.
这样,我们帮助别人去接受基督并活出在基督里的身份。圣灵藉着道告诉我们是谁、 祂在我们生命中为我们、在我们里面所做的以及将要在我们里面所成就的。我们的 老我和世界价值体系试图强加给我们另外一个与之不同的身份。
For example, we should help people who struggle with afflictions not to “be” their affliction. Help people to affirm, “I have bi-polar, not I am bi-polar.” Teach them to say, “ I am one of God’s children who in this world with all its fallenness and curse, struggle with ”. We do not say, “I am migraine.” This reminds us that who we are is to be lived out even when we struggle with issues.
例如,我们应该帮助那些与苦难争战而对他们来说却“不是”苦难的人。要帮助他 们承认:“我有两级倾向,但我不是两级倾向的人”(注:bipolar【精神病学】 (情感)两极性的,躁狂和抑郁状态交替的)。教会他们去说:“我是上帝的孩子,在 充斥堕落、咒诅的世界上与争战”。我们不要说:“我患有偏头痛。”这样, 当我们与这些问题争战的时候就会提醒我们要活出我们自己原本的样式(who we are)。
Affirm Christ’s Work for You (v.11-15)确信基督为你所做的工(11-15 节)
We are to help people believe in what Christ has done for them and is doing in them. At no point can the issue they are struggling with be used to deny either the saving or transforming work the Spirit is doing in their lives through the Word of God.
我们要帮助人们坚信基督已经为他们所做的以及正在他们身上所做的工作。对于圣灵藉着 神的道在他们的生命中所做的挽回或改变的工作,他们所争战的问题绝不会否认。
Through Christian counseling, people will come to live according to who they are in Christ and what Christ has done for them.
通过基督徒辅导,人们将按照他们在基督中的样式以及基督为他们所作的去生活。
Think about this 想一想
How this affects a Christian counselor working with an unbeliever.这对一个基督徒辅导非信徒会产生怎么的影响.
The reality the Bible describes is simply true . The universe, the world, people are as the Bible says they are, whether they believe it or not. This is a great strength for Christian counselors. We can lean across to people and actually speak truth in love. So do you?
圣经中所描述的现实非常正确。不管他们相信与否,宇宙、世界、人类确如圣经所说的。这对基督徒辅导者来说是个莫大的力量。我们可以接近人群并在爱中传说真理。那么你呢?
How this redefines what we are trying to accomplish对我们所努力完成的工作应如何重新定义/解释?
Interpret a person’s world 了解这个人的世界
Install faith, that is, an obeying belief 建立信心,即顺服的信靠
Develop Christ-like maturity 长成基督的身量
Warn against false ideas and practices 防备虚假的思想传统
This humbles us as we realize several important ideas:对下面几点的认识会使我们虚己:
There is no Christian triumphalism. We are not pretending that in this life we have solution to every issue of life. We do not (and no one does) have a full and final solution in this life. We simply have to learn to live pleasing to God even when our situation cannot be changed.
基督徒没有必胜论,不要假装我们在今世可以解决生命中的所有问题。在今世我们没有(别人也没有)一个完全且最终的解决方案。即便我们的境遇不能改变,我们也只不过是学着去过一种讨 神喜悦的生活,
Christian counseling is about a Person. Yes, there are practical modalities and methods to help people be pleasing to God in the midst of the mess. But we are to counsel in reference to Christ – to whether people believe and bow to the Lord.
基督徒辅导是关乎人的。确实有很多可行的模式与方法去帮助困境中的人来讨 神的喜悦。但我们的辅导是关乎基督的——确保人们是否相信并屈膝在主面前。
We do offer real hope and real help. The Bible tells us that we are to live now in view of heaven, of the new creation that has begun at the resurrection of Christ and will be brought to fullness in the new heavens and new earth. Then, all struggle, all sorrow, all sickness, all affliction, all fallenness, all that we suffer under in this life will be brought to an end. Then, o then, will Christ be all and in all for the glory of God the Father。
我们的的确确提供了一个真正的希望与帮助。圣经告诉我们要用天国的眼光、以基督复活所形成的新人的身份活在当下,并在将来的新天新地中得以完全。如此,在 今世中我们所有的争战、忧伤、疾病、患难、堕落,以及所有我们所遭受的将会结 束。这样,基督将是万有又在万有之中,使父上帝得荣耀。 18Foundations of Biblical Counseling 圣经辅导基础 | 错误!使用“开始”选项卡将 Title 应用于要在此处显示的文字。
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