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“Love” is a “nutrient” that human beings have been inseparable from since ancient times, what is true love, and how to love so that it will not be hurt? In the face of love, do you choose someone who loves you or someone you love?
Christian artist Kou Naixin talked about the “true meaning of love” through her own experience on Beijing Satellite TV’s “I Am a Speaker” program.
She admitted that she has lived in a loving environment since she was a child, just like a princess, so when she falls in love, she hopes that her boyfriend will treat her like a princess, which is also what most of the audience here raised their hands in agreement.
In college, she had four boyfriends in one go, with different styles, but the same thing was that they all loved her. Among the four boyfriends, No. 1 is the Prince of Stars, who can fold 3,650 colored stars in one go; The second boyfriend is erudite and talented, and he can talk about astronomy and geography; The No. 3 boyfriend is a long-legged uncle, who is diligent and takes care of Kou Naixin; Boyfriend No. 4 is a tragic saint, and when two people quarrel, he will run in the rain shouting Kou Naixin’s name.
In addition to the above four, after that, she met the fifth “Heavenly King”, which combined all the advantages of the above four boyfriends and can be called a “perfect man”, so the two held a luxurious engagement ceremony. But when she felt that she was about to become the happiest princess and marry the prince who loved her the most, she found that before the marriage, the groom ran away and mailed her the engagement ring with a long letter attached, and she was puzzled at that time, “Why is this happening, doesn’t he love me very much.”
When she opened the long letter and read it, she understood the reason why her boyfriend ran away from marriage. The letter said, “Kou Naixin, you don’t know me at all, you don’t love me at all, you don’t know what food I eat, you don’t know what movies I like to watch, you only love me for being good to you.”
Encountering such a huge blow, Kou Naixin washed her face with tears every day. When she read the letter repeatedly, she began to reflect, how can my love be so selfish? In this world, no one wants to be the one who gives more and loves more. When he doesn’t get anything in return, his heart will be cold, and he will go. She understands that although she chose someone who loves her very much, she did not get the happiness she expected, so she learned from the pain and decided to learn to love someone well.
Later, she fell in love with a man who was willing to love him without looking back and was willing to give everything for him. When she truly loved, she understood, “Love is giving, not plundering, and love is sharing rather than possessing.” ”
However, people are weak sinners, and even if you find someone you love very much and are willing to give everything for him, you must know that if the other person has not responded, you will not be able to love to the end on your own. So you need to learn the love of Christ, when you receive the unconditional love of Christ, and then love the other person, whether the other person is willing to reciprocate or not, you can endure and love to the end.
“Since he loved his people in the world, he loved them to the end. (John 13:1)
God is love! Jesus’ love for us is unconditional and enduring to the end, and only by understanding this love, receiving this love, entering this love, and living this love, can you have the most beautiful and happy marriage. Kou Naixin, born in a Christian family, is the granddaughter of the famous Chinese pastor Kou Shiyuan, whose father is an elder of the Taiwanese church, and her uncle is a famous Chinese pastor and former Taiwanese TV anchor Kou Shaoen. Graduating from the Department of Foreign Languages of National Taiwan University, a famous entertainment program host in Taiwan, he became famous on the mainland in 2012 for serving as an emotional mentor on Guizhou Satellite TV’s “Very Perfect” program. Husband Huang Guolun, a famous Taiwanese musician, entered the Chinese pop music scene with the song “I Do” and became a well-known music talent.
